Debunking the 'Rich Foreigner' Myth in the Philippines

Think that every foreigner living in the Philippines is raking in cash? It's a rumor but the reality is told in more warm and more subtle hues.

When on holiday, foreign men spend their money in luxurious hotels, dine in chic restaurants, and enjoy the beautiful islands. It's a sight you can't overlook, especially when you consider local budgets. The contrast can be like a dream -- it's wild.

This lifestyle is featured on numerous social media feeds, brimming with sunsets and exciting adventures. It's attractive, but it's only the highlights reel and not the day-today.

A common pattern: Many foreigners aren't millionaires - they're living on savings or pensions, settling for the comfort of their lives, not excessive. Their spending extends further than at home, resulting in patterns of apparent ease, but not always huge wealth.

For certain people, the typical Filipino family's monthly budget is the same as what a tourist could spend in a single day.

Add in the past: Centuries of colonization by Spain and America left a legacythat a foreign look can bring opportunity and, indeed, wealth. The "Colonial mentality" affects perceptions in a subtle way, blending admiration for foreign objects with a desire for a "dream life."

But this is the truth The perception of wealth does not always reflect reality. Many expats live simple lives or have a budget that is stretched or even work from home. Not every foreigner you meet is a walking ATM.' A classic moment of confusion!

What is the most gentle advice? Don't be awestruck by displays and opt at meaningful moments. Be honest about your life It's the heart-to-heart conversations that make the most lasting connections.

Because, at the end of the day, trust and respect are more important than any other luxury. If these stereotypes astonish you, then you need to watch the story unfold in person--better to watch the clip.